A client asked me this recently — and here’s my answer ✨

For me, it isn’t about building discipline through force — it was about healing what discipline/consistency once meant.

Growing up, consistency was demanded through punishment.
If I didn’t obey what my father wanted, I faced the silent treatment, isolation, verbal and physical abuse. I learned to associate action with fear… and consistency with survival 💔

I had to stay BUSY to avoid pain, abuse, and the withdrawal of love.
I had to stay BUSY to earn approval, validation, and affection.
I had to COMPLY in order to be seen as worthy and valuable.

It was my programming. My conditioning. All I knew.

It wasn’t until my early 20s that I realized I’d been living in a constant state of fight or flight my entire life ⚡

But entrepreneurship… healing my nervous system…
and rebuilding my relationship with the masculine (God) 🙏 — helped me rewrite that story.

There were so many things I had to UN-learn in order to build my business sustainably.
Because operating from SURVIVAL is exhausting 😮‍💨

Now, I don’t move from fear.
I move from faith — and from following a Divine assignment 🌿

God doesn’t force me — He pulls me.
There’s a Divine current that calls me forward…
not with shame, but with assignment.
Not with fear, but with purpose.
Not with pressure, but with love ❤️

Consistency no longer feels like a demand.
It feels like DEVOTION ✨

That’s how I stay on the path:
by remembering I’m not being punished for falling off, I’m being invited back on 🌸

What are your thoughts on this? Can you relate? 💭