👸🏻WHAT’S REALLY BLOCKING YOU FROM RECEIVING SUPPORT…[IT’S TIME TO TAKE OFF THE MASK…]
For years, I had always identified as being a warrior – an independent woman.
After so many traumatic experiences – getting burnt by friends and ex-boyfriends and even family…I believed at my CORE that I couldn’t trust anyone.👋🏼👋🏼
I believed with every fiber of my being that I had to do it all on my own. That if I wanted anything, I had to be the one to go get it.
I even wore that metaphorical badge proudly.
I thought that…
I could take care of myself.
I didn’t need anyone.👋🏼👋🏼
I had to do it all on my own.
I had to put up walls to protect myself.
I GENUINELY THOUGHT THAT ASKING FOR HELP WAS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS AND THAT IT WOULD MAKE ME LOOK LESS INTELLIGENT OR COMPETENT.
I believed if I asked, I’d get rejected or told NO…or be a burden to someone else.
I thought of how embarrassing it would be to admit that I didn’t have it all together, that I wasn’t perfect, and that I had to ask for support.
🦹🏼♀️So I put on the mask…you know that mask that – “I have it all together and I am GOOD by myself.”
I wore the fake smile while out in public and was outgoing and energetic.
That mask worked in many ways for me…I was a go-getter who MADE SHIT HAPPEN (totally in my masculine energy).
But there was no joy and certainly no connection in my life. I unconsciously distanced myself and pushed people away.
This mask COST me so much.
I pushed men away and attracted guys who were unavailable, narcissistic, or wayyyy too much in their feminine energy. Turns out masculine men don’t like dominant women.😅
I avoided hiring a business coach and my business suffered for years because I was just trying random off-the-wall strategies.
I also didn’t let friends into my world and didn’t have close connections.
CAN YOU RELATE?☝️
If you’re proudly wearing the warrior mask, but beneath that mask you are exhausted, stressed beyond belief, and miserable…
IT’S TIME TO TAKE OFF THE MASK(S).
I challenge you to ask yourself…
🧐What is really under that fear of asking for support?
🤔What are you avoiding feeling?
🤔What are you protecting yourself from?
When you shed those beliefs and actually ALLOW in support, your life transforms. It certainly did for me.
I can say with confidence NOW, there is a better way.👸🏻✨
If you’re ready to take off (no, THROW off) the mask shed the fear and get OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY, let’s connect to see how I can help!